Why a name

Baby names, yes baby names. This is stressful too, we had the boys name and sort of a girls name but don't know how we want to spell it, b/c I want a little latin in my child, besides the half I am giving her, and now, I don't know what to do. I don't want to tell too many people b/c one always knows someone with that name and either couldn't stand them or thought they were ok. We had the name Joshua for a boy since last years babies, then 2 people I know named their boys that so I was trying to come up with a diff name, so it wouldn't be weird. So we almost had a full boy name picked out for our boy that everyone said we were having, haha. Than with girls names, I liked Elena at first, but that is Tim's families housekeeper, again a little awkward, hm. Then came the short last name, so it can't be a short first name, it has to flow, and with a german last name, the first name can't be harsh either. Then initials, my baby isn't going to be a H.O. or B.O. so b's and h's are out. If I missed anything please chime in, really. Tims family gave me Carl (like a used car lott, and one more, now I have to sound them out too, oh no!!)Tim likes K.O. haha, so she will beat up boys if he doesn't. There are also diff meanings to diff names, one I liked means joyous song in baby name book, which I just looked up online and all they have it meaning is a free man, um okay. So I just looked up girls on facebook with the name and spelling that I like and they are all gorgeous, so that works for me, hey I want to give her a chance. :) This is a name they will have for the rest of their lives, unless they end up rebeling and becoming Poppy or something like that. Very important stuff to think about.......